Have you ever thought that your mother does not love you?

Posted January 7th, 2009 by
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i somehow did at one point in my life thought she does not care at all, there was a point in my life where i could not even share my attention and could not even be in a relationship because i often thought that if my own parents could not love me, then i dont think others would.

I know I do and always will.

She is rude and always gave me death threats when I was little. She once sprayed raid in my eyes because I wanted to watch a movie with her when I was 5 or 4.

Not all parents love their child. Sometimes they becomes a mistake that they regret or they simply just don't.

I know I used to think about relationships that way, but I took a risk and I found a guy that I truly love. I've never felt better.

Now we are just trying to be friends. We get along here and there, but she just has anger problems. But I could care less. I know how to tke care of myself and I have family and friends that care for me. So I don't really worry.

I know my mother doesn't love me. Hell, she tried to abort me 4 times, the last time was in her 60th trimester. I bet that's why I have "mommy issues"...

I have a memory of my mother hitting me square in the face when i was about 2 years old.....it stuck with me but I recently had a heart to heart with her ...she is 73 now ...and found out she was suffering from post natal depression after having my brother....only wish someone had told me years ago because I always remembered the incident and thought she must have never loved me

I've also thought that my mum didn't love me, but now we're like the best of friends. We used to argue 24/7 and i got kicked out the house several times for silly little things, but i got up the courage to confront her about it and we had a 4 hour long conversation about it, and we also had a little cry, but things have been great since, and it's also lifted my confidence.

yup she didnt want me when my parents divorced =/
just wants her pot head bf

yeah i feel the same

sometimes i felt that way but not anymore.

when i was young my mum used to hit me drag me down the street by my hair shout at me 24/7 and used to just act like she didnt love me at all. he ex chucked me up the stairs by the skin on my throught and i still have bruises from him. i still dont get on with my mum cause of what she did. one incident was that her and my sister sat on one sofa whilst i sat on the other and i felt really left out and thought that i didnt belong to her, i felt like an outsider, my dad was always really lovely to me and was like my mum and dad and i really thank him for that. but just because other people dont get on with their mums and think that their mums dont love them doesnt mean that you shouldnt i think you should go to your mum and tell her how you feel and really try to work it out with her because in life i have really needed a mother figure but have never had one as me and my mum are like petrol and a match but you will need to have her in your life i hope i have helped you just try and get on with her and talk to her, let her say her point of view and you may understand why she has made you feel this way hope it goes well xxx

I'm sorry. I'm sure your mom loves you. She probably just can't express it right.

I've never felt that my mom doesn't love me.

This is going to be long so sorry!

I have been stuck with this very same question for quite a while now.

My mother was very abusive toward me throughout my childhood and still continues her abuse to this day. Now it is her words than her actions because I am 30 now and do not go anywhere near her.

In my case it turns out that my mother has some mental health issues such as Bipolar disorder, depression, and anxiety that I know of.

While deep down inside, she must have some love for me - she does not know how to properly convey that emotion. Instead she attacks the people in my life who do show me love and affection.

For example, she makes false accusations about my GF toward my grandmother. I have lived with my grandma since I was 13 because I left my mothers home to escape the abuse.

I now care for my grandma and have her living in my home, I take care of all of her health and financial needs because she has dementia and cannot do these things for herself anymore.

Anyways, she tells GM that my GF just wants to take the house from me, and that we are misusing her (GM) money and lots of other ridiculous accusations. She even uses racial slurs to describe my GF, who is Asian and so on and so on.

She tells my GM that I am abusing her, and should be in jail for the way I treat my GrandMa, all the while I take care of her everyday needs such as cooking, cleaning, getting medication, setting DR appts and everything else to take care of my GM as best as possible.

Sorry, I kind of vented to you, but just know that your mom does love you, but she may have some undiagnosed mental health issues, or simply cannot express love/affection for what ever reason. DO NOT for one moment think it is your fault, and know that you will have many relationships where you are deeply loved and appreciated.

I thought it when i was a stupid teenager but as I've grown up i realised no one will ever love you as much as your mum does she would die for me and me her it's a bond that can never be broken. i am now a mum myself and just know that i will love my little boy forever

no,mothers don't hate their child.

No way. My Mom loves me more than anything in the world.

Thats never ever crossed my mind!

all mothers either humans or animals like its sons,and can kill to defeat them it is created with this,,,

That's really sad that you feel that way. You need to like yourself. Because if you don't like yourself then how can anyone else like you. I just want to give you a hug.

Man, you worry too much xD Once in my life, I made a mistake that I felt that my parents no longer loved me, but somehow, at the end I knew they loved me for who I am. And if you say, "if my own parents could not love me, then i don't think others would.", that is not true. People don't care, if they love you, they will love you.

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Have you ever thought that your mother does not love you?